Coping with a rare cancer can be difficult, both practically and emotionally. Being well informed about your condition and its treatment can help you to make decisions and cope with what happens.
Taking in information can be difficult, especially when you have just been diagnosed. Make a list of questions before you see your doctor. Take someone with you to remind you what you want to ask and help remember the answers.
Ask your doctors and nurses to explain things again if you need them to.
Remember that you don’t have to sort everything out at once. It might take some time to deal with each issue. Ask for help if you need it.
Ways to help yourself
The symptoms of CMML often mean that you feel less able to do everyday things. Talk to your doctor or nurse about any symptoms you have. There may be supportive treatments that can help you.
You may also feel better if you:
- eat a healthy, well balanced diet
- do some gentle exercise - after checking with your doctor
- rest when you are tired
Try to work out your priorities each day if you get tired easily. Talk to your family and friends and ask for any help you need. You can find tips about coping with tiredness in the section about fatigue and cancer.
Talking to other people
Talking to your friends and relatives about your CMML can help. But some people are scared of the emotions this could bring up and won’t want to talk. They might worry that you won't be able to cope with your situation.
It can strain relationships if your family or friends don't want to talk. But talking can help increase trust and support between you and them.
Help your family and friends by letting them know if you would like to talk about what’s happening and how you feel.
Cancer Research UK
It can also help to talk to people with the same thing. But it can be hard to find someone with a rare condition. You can look at Cancer Research UK’s discussion forum - Cancer Chat. It is a place to share experiences, stories and information with other people who know what you are going through.
There are organisations that also offer help and support.
MDS UK Patient Support Group
MDS UK Patient Support Group aims to increase awareness of MDS and offer support and information to patients and families. They campaign to increase the quality of life and make treatments available to those affected by myelodysplastic syndromes. They also have some information on the website for people living with CMML.
Telephone: 020 7733 7558
Leukaemia Care is a national blood cancer support charity, committed to ensuring that anyone affected by blood cancer receives the right information, advice and support.
It provides a range of support services to patients and their carers, including information, support groups, patient and carer conferences, and nurse education days.
Nurse or support team number: Freephone 08088 010 444 (Monday to Friday 8:30am to 5:30pm, Thursday and Friday evenings 7pm to 10pm).
Blood Cancer UK
Blood Cancer UK fund research into leukaemia, lymphoma and myeloma. It also provides patient information booklets and leaflets that you can download or order from their website.
Support line: 0808 2080 888 (10am to 7pm, Monday to Friday and 10am to 1pm on Saturday and Sunday)