Hi. My Stepdad has been diagnosed with terminal cancer. He has been through chemo and radiotherapy but sadly nothing has worked.
He has tumours in and around his brain which cruelly have affected his speech. Since getting his terminal diagnosis he hasn't been able to communicate with anyone.
My Mum is understandably struggling both with dealing with the diagnosis mentally and coping with the physical side of caring for him on a day to day basis. Sadly she hasn't had a lot of support. He has carers visiting during the day, but the evenings can be very difficult, particularly when he has accidents.
I feel guilty that I can't do more to help with the physical side of caring for him, but I have a disability myself which limits what I can do.
I'm just wondering if any of you could offer advice on the best way I could support my Mum through this. Mentally we're all finding it so tough. My Stepdad is such a good person. It's heartbreaking that this has happened to him.