I have been diagnosed with breast cancer 5 weeks ago! Unfortunately the surgeon had an accident with a diathermy during the last op and so instead of a few stitches I also had a burn thro the nipple and other wounds causing damage I had not been prepared could happen!! They didn't get clear margins so I hav been waiting all this time for wounds to heal and nearly there now although I may lose it anyway after the next op!!
My husband and I are not getting along his behaviour is nasty at times and hasn't apologised!!( fearful and stressed) And I feel let down as am trying to keep strong and spirits up so am quite angry with him. I had a melt down today after being told a senior manager from work who is a bully will be calling me and turning down an op for Monday coz I just had enuf of it all-and didn't feel ready as wounds is still a little vulnerable!!
I started to think of my father who did of lung cancer aged 47 ( same age I am now) and in my lonliness thought how he wouldv understood what it's like and so googled to find someone to relate roams found this site and wanted to respond to Karen who introduced herself earlier then I remembered I had cancer myself so thought I'd start with an intrduction so here I am!!