I am 56 and a widower. I had the great privilege to be married to Jennifer Roberts, a long term kidney transplant patient who lived with lung cancer for more than a year. She achieved great things in her life, particularly in her last 12 months. One of the UK's leading specialists in dementia in home care, she helped to transform the Dementia Gateway, produced and delivered a dementia strategy for the United Kingdom Home Care Association and became Dementia Lead for that organisation and for VisionCall. I was her right hand man, helping her to fulfil her hopes and ambitions. I believe my experience can help many others facing similar health challenges.