I have joined this group hoping for some support from anyone who has been through the same horrible illness. My husband has terminal cancer. He started with a tumour in his gums and jaw and had 1st operation 5 years ago. Then he had his glands in his neck removed the same year. The following year he had nose bleeds and after attending hospital they found a separate cancer in his nose. The tumour was removed and then later that year they removed his septum. All was ok until a year last October when we found a lump on the other side of his neck and after scan we were told it had come back on both sides and there was nothing else they could do. His poor face is a mess and his mouth extremely sore. He has trouble eating so I have to do soft or blended foods. He is still battling but it is so hard for me to watch him suffer. The district nurses come every 2 weeks but its as if no-one can do much except give him pain relief. Just come in from shopping and he has been really sick so don't know whether its to do with the cancer or not. I feel so helpless. It has helped already just to voice my feelings.