Retired City Planner, 68, living in Sand Springs, Oklahoma (born & raised in New York City area), 3 years US Army ('66-'69), married too many times but single now, one child, 33 yrs. & an attorney. I am an active community service volunteer as retiree based on my 25 years as community activist/housing advocate in central Oklahoma. I then did 12 years as city planner/interim city manager in small northeast cities of 4,000 & 17,000. Did four years at local Walmart selling electronics (for fun). I adopt families and individuals an bring them into my home occasionally. Live humbly with limited income. Read widely, eat sanely, believe in principles of peace and love....live by some of the following: "Remain calm, neither seek nor accept credit for doing good, never complain and never explain and God grant me the Serinity..."