My partner has stage IV lung cancer. When he was first diagnosed three years ago he relied a lot on my help in the day to day things, finding doctors, hospitals etc. It has been tough for us all - this sounds selfish as I can't even try to comprehend what he is going through - but it did initially bring us closer. He now won't speak to us. He has aspbergers which it makes it harder to understand. Everything changed two years ago and the tension has been horrendous. Any advice would be really helpful.