Hi,
My brother has been battling hard for the last couple of years but it looks like that he doesn't have long left.
I live a reasonable distance away and whilst the first instinct is to drop everything and go down I know that practically that doesn't make any sense and there isn't anything that I can do.
I also know that there isn't anything helpful I can say.
I'm actually lucky enough to have a lot of good things going on in my life too and have no idea whether mentioning these things are good to talk about or not. For example I'm planning my wedding, which was going to be hard enough having lost my mum to cancer, now knowing my brother won't be there either is horrendous but life has to go on. Talking about this might give feeling that he is happy for me or might make him sad that he won't be there.
It's just such a horrible and hopeless situation for everyone, it would be great if anyone has any advice?