Was told my dad has lung cancer

Hi I just don't no we're to turn I've been told my dad has lung cancer he had a heart attack and had 3. Stents put in but X-ray showed up a shadow he had a MRI unfortunately my dad don't no as they wanted him to recover from the heart attack my dad is Bangladesh and his English is not great my nephew was with him and he was the one who had spoke to the doctors and was the one who said not to say anything yet till he goes to the hos on the 8 of Dec unfortunately I had not seen my dad for some years now and was completely heartbroken when I went to see him last week how do you cope with knowing but knowing your dad don't I Carnt think of anything else I'm so sorry if I don't make any sense it hurts doing this x

  • Welcome to the forum Diane although I'm sorry to hear your dad has just been diagnosed with lung cancer after having a heart attack.

    I can't imagine how hard it must have been to post on the forum knowing how much pain you are in at the moment but I'm glad you found the strength and courage to do so and I wanted to let you know that you are not alone. Our community will do all they can to help you through this difficult time and now that I've replied I'm sure our members will post soon to offer their support and share their experiences with you if they have had a similar experience.

    Post as much as you need to Diane and remember that someone will always be here to help.

    Wishing you all the best, 

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

  • Hi Diane, 

    My dad was diagnosed with lung cancer at the end of October and its a very difficult thing to get your head around.

    I dont know what type of man your dad is, as to whether or not he would want to know what is happening and that is a decision only you can make as a family. Til then you will need to be strong and give as much support as you can even though your own heart is breaking.

    Lee x