hi, tomorrow morning my 87 year old mum is meeting with her care team to discuss her options. I will be there. Mum has suspected upper colon cancer with a possible spread to her lung. Mum had a colonoscopy last week that showed a large tumour. 10 biopsies were taken. Mum was due to have a Pet scan before this meeting but the care team want the talk to her first. Mum has put it to one side and isn't thinking about it. Mum will look to me for advice tomorrow and I must find strength. I am very scared. Mum is too old for chemo so the tumour cannot be shrunk. I don't know what if any surgery will be offered and what the risks are. Mum must understand the implications of all the options but it will be so difficult to explain it. It will terrify her. I have visions of mum dieing in pain, messing herself, waisted away. Mum is already so thin. I love her so much.