Hi I really don't know what to do with myself I've always since being a mum a very anxious health person I am always worried I'm gonna get cancer or have cancer well in fact I had pre cancerous cells back in 2001 now I'm totally obsessive and worried I have breast cancer but I'm the opposite of people I won't ho to doctors for the fear of being told yes you do have cancer I currently can feel what I think is a lump in right boob up top part of my breast one minute I can feel next can't I am that bad not only do I bruise myself I have also cut myself from digging so hard but my right boob feels quite lumpy all over the top part I've just become a mum for the 4th time at 43 and am so so scared of dying and my lo not knowing me I have had a lump before which I felt in my gut to get checked out but not this time I am over obsessive I am even getting anyone to feel there to see if they can feel it to top it off I think my might be perimenopausal to and I know I'm so scared and worried as my mum has lung cancer aswell and that scares the poo out of me along with the adverts and the endless ppl on news who have been diagnosed with cancer and are young to I think eventually I will get the guts to go doctors just a stupid person I guess I am sorry for this