so, in April my Nan got  diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. She is 83 and has been given about a year left to live. Of course we are all struggling with this news. However my partner had been really amazing at supporting me through all of this. Well, until this week. I went to go and look after her for a bit before I went on holiday.( I live in Bristol with my partner, but I’m from London which is where my family are) Went on holiday. And I came back to a phone call from my dad asking me if I could go over there for a bit to look after her. My partner then got super annoyed at me, because “we hadn’t spent a lot of time together”, yet my Nan hasn’t got much time left. We had a massive argument and he doesn’t seem to see it from my point of view. What do I do? He has been acting really selfish which has got me upset as I don’t have much time left with my Nan.