Today, I listened to my beautiful mother's Lung Cancer. Shocking conversation to have to listen to. She's 80 suffers from COPD, has a heart condition, so due to this, they recommend no treatment.
I live and care for both my parents and work full time. I'm struggling with this news! Where do you start? We have no idea how long we have had with her. We need to talk and prepare as a family, but wherein God's name do we start?
Can a normally all-together person admit, I'm terrified, scared of what lays ahead, and emotionally crumbling inside?
I can't focus on why no treatment can be offered, reality says she's not fit enough to accept invasive treatment or the main treatments. But do I just accept this decision? Where and what will we face as a family? My dad has dementia and struggling he's long loved partner is about to leave him, and when this may happen, life is somewhat cruel.
How do you cope?