My mother has been diagnosed with cancer and has undergone numerous courses of chemotherapy. Today she found out that her cancer has spread.
People ask how she is and I just say 'she's fine' because she is in herself. I find it so hard to talk about it as I'd rather pretend it isn't happening. I look after her and take her places but can't handle the thought aid conversations about treatment, progress etc.
I know it's good to talk but I don't know how to in fear that I will just break down - I'm strong for my mother as I know this isn't about me but it's so hard to act like everything is fine when in reality my mother is facing a battle that she and other patients don't deserve.
Anyway, is this normal to block things out?
Thank you