Oh so sorry .. but yes I had and will never forget even though I knew... still those words grade 3 ... echoes in my ears ... everything else going over the head ... with only those words ... mastectomy,  chemo... radiotherapy ... still got in that day ...

It was only when like you l thought, 1000s before me and 1000s will come after ... my daughter in law pulled us all together ... said well live in the day... we won't look ahead, or say "what if" well take every day and every problem as and when they come up ... and well do it together ... and we did ...

I got a pair of vertual boxing gloves on ... and got in cancers ring ... looked it in the eye and told him he will have one tough fight on its hands ... coz cancer wants us all to buckle and bend and brake .. and most of all give up ...  well there's loads of us in that ring taking it on ... and with us all there trying to kick it's *** ... well stick two fingers up .. yes we will bend ... yes we will feel scared ... but we won't brake and won't let it change who we are ... it's not about us winning or loosing... it's about taking every day, every problem and holding on tight ... it's a rough old ride ... but you hold on in there ... wer all right by you ..

Chrissie

Dearest Chrissie 

thank you for your kind words . 

This week is a bit of a roller coaster of emotions . We  are confident that with all the love & support of our wonderful family & friends & forum group friends as you that we will get there . 

I am most humbled when I read such journeys as yours & others . The world has a mission & should we wish to accept we will kick cancers *** so hard it won’t hsve a place here ! 

Much love ️ to you & all you have been through & continue with your positivity & courage 

love Jodie & spike xx

Good news Friday . Update on prostate cancer diagnosis 

heard some good news to set us up for the weekend 

husband spoke with the cancer specialist nurse this afternoon over the phone 

results of bone scan he had on Tuesday show no cancer here 

we are still to hear the results of his CT scan that he had on Wednesday 

I’ll never forget the look on my husbands face when he told me this news this afternoon . He looked as if a huge weight had been lifted from him ️

We now have more hope that this will just be surgery . 

Sendiing positive thoughts & love to all on this forum ️

Oh so glad it's looking promising ... it's amazing how cancer doesn't like us feeling strong ... but it really helps , though it doesn't stop us feeling vulnerable at times too .. coz wer just human ... but here's to more good news ... Will keep everything crossed ... chrissie

Thank you dear Chrissie . We are both doing so much talking . It’s amazing also how it changes your focus & direction doesn’t it . Things we have planned for retirement may be happening now sooner . 

Love & kindest wishes to you for an enjoyable weekend ️