I just feel as though I'm unable to cope... I go to bed thinking about kidney cancer wake up thinking .. I have had 3 ct scans and the last one was stable 2 weeks ago, I have a 11 mm nodule in my left lung .. I had a pet scan in September and it showed up at 1.5. So that's brilliant, the oncologist said it was really good news. My last ct scan 2 weeks ago showed no change and for the first time the surgeon that I saw actually smiled ..But all day I think and worry... But my biggest problem is I get so wound up I reach for the hidden cigarets .. And on some bad days I've smoked 4 which is crazy crazy ... It's these days that I just hate myself so badly... I have 4 close friends with various stages of cancer , one terminal with maybe 6 months before the worst happens. I have been so bad that I start to shake then I rush for the cigarette... I know .. I know that know it's crazy totally.. I am now going for councellng and hypnosis to try and beat it....... It's totally insane on the days I do it... I've changed my diet I exercise I try to be positive. Then I just have a day where I can't seem to cope and that's the days I am now fearing all the time because that means I smoke.... It's so hard as I live alone with my 2 dogs... No one to talk to when I get so low ... I pray to god every day to help me beat the damn urge ... My terminal friend came to stay with me with his wife and son for a week. When they left I waved goodbye within 2 minutes of them leaving I had a panic attack shacking like mad..that was when I smoked and since then it's been every 3 or 4 days.. I pray every night that I will never smoke even 1 more... Today has been a good day.. But now I'm worried about tomorrow morning as it's the mornings are the worst time of the day ... ..... I just need someone to talk to when my mind starts to go crazy ... I know at the moment I'm stable the scans have shown that... But I worry myself senseless about the future and then it all gets to me so bad.. Because we all know that there's a chance it can come back .... I hate myself for being so weak and smoking even 1 cigarette because the fact is that it might help for 5 minutes but then my feelings just get more intense.... Desperate for some help which is so pathetic when I know that I am the only one that can help myself... My kidney operation was in May this year I can't remember the last time I smiled or laughed .. It's turned my life upside down totally.. When I got the results of the pet scan in September I just burst into tears ... When I got in my car. Thinking thinking it's good today but what about tomorrow..... I feel as though my post is so pathetic when I read all the posts on here ..... Just looking for some help and someone to talk to. Alan