That guilty feeling

The week before Christmas my mum was diagnosed with terminal cancer and given 6 months to live. Because of where the cancer was a tracheotomy had to be inserted, she also has a rig fitted for feeding. Prior to mum being admitted to hospital I booked a break away for Easter for myself, my partner and our son. We would be about a 2 hour drive away, Easter is now fast approaching and I'm now unsure whether to go or not. 

  • Hi there ... So sorry bout your mum's diagnosis ... I can imagine just what your feeling at the mo ... If you go and you may regret it, if mums short on time... If you stay your partner and son miss out on a holiday ... What does your mum say ... Ask her , she may want you to go ... And remember 2 hours away means your in reaching distance if your needed ... So that's doable .... 

    But it's really down to you, and whatever you decide , please don't feel guilty... As we all need a brake sometimes ... And I know I'd tell my son to go ... But be kind to your self, and know you sound really caring and I'm sending you a vertual hug brave lass ... Chrisie xx