Just learned today that my beautiful, brave wife has secondary breast cancer in spine,hip and rib. Can't stop crying when I think of the wonderful retirement I had planned for me and her (although no tears in front of her, brave face). She's convinced she can fight this and live for 20 more years then I read that all that can be offered is quality of life, perhaps 2 years. No, no, no. Can anyone give me any positive stories, my hearts breaking.