Hi, my husband was diagnosed with cancer of the osesphagus on 23 May so this is still fairly new to us both. We are going through all the emotions everyone on here does and it's bloody awful. Next week we find out if he can have an operation to remove the nasty bit of *** call a tumour, however, he had a heart bypass 2 years ago followed by heart failure, which he lives with and manages very well. This problem means his heart may not be up to the op and the same with chemo. I am helping as much as possible, I love him dearly, he is my rock, my soul mate, has seen me through some really rough times and I cannot imagine life without him, so why today when I was out, for a fleeting moment I just wanted to keep driving and not go home. I can't believe I even thought like that.