Well managed to get to the wedding as blood transfusion has helped hubby a great deal. But still worried about leaving him for so long,  deep down I don't want to go,but this would have upset him.  So nine hours later I come home and he is still up waiting for me.   He tells me I look beautiful and I say I wished he could have been with me. Off to bed and the next week to face, may go for lunch out tomorrow if he is strong enough.   Older daughter's birthday today,  thankfully it looks like her beloved Dad will be here for her forty fit.