Hi there, need to get off my chest. Mum and dad split up a long time ago and then my dad went to teach in thailand for 16 years and coming back every summer, it was a tough decision for him and us ( 3 sons) , but we was alot healthy for it ,
Anyway he turned 70 and was fed up and wanted to see his sons and grandchildren as he was missing out, and he was getting sick more regular in thailand, eventually we got him home for the new year(January 2019 ) and he surprised us all, it was the best feeling ever , getting him home and catching up on lost time and doing dad and sons stuff. From the January he was really I'll alot and lost about 6 stone and was going for blood test and scans and blood were fine, but he couldn't walk anywhere, his legs were brittle. July 3rd he fell in the bath and broke his leg( female bone) it was horrible to witness it but after thr ambulance came I thought, great he will be ok in few weeks,
In the hospital he had a funny turn and the doctors rushed in and were very concerned, then we got the worst news anyone can get. He told us I've just seen your dads scan and he has is riddled with cancer in liver, lungs and bones and he wont leave the hospital, he has months maybe weeks.
5 weeks later the doctors told us his body is shutting down and you need to say your goodbyes, my dad couldn't speak as he had a throat infection but was trying to tell us something, he eventually went into a coma and we all watched him take his last breath and his heart stopped forever,. It was the most traumatic experience I've ever witnessed and constantly think about it.
Worst thing is I've told him enough that I loved him and when he passed over i told him i love u dad,
I just cant cope, i wish i knew he was ok now and in heaven