Hi Alex,

I'm so sorry to hear of the situation with your mum - I can only imagine how incredibly difficult this must be.

I can see you've had a reply from one of our moderators to your previous post, so I won't try to duplicate any of that information. But hopefully my reply here will boost your post, meaning a few more people may see it and also reply.

I hope that you have others around you that you can speak to about this, such as friends and family. Either way, the forum is always here if you need it as a safe space to write things down and reach out to others.

Wishing you all the best,

Ben
Cancer Chat Moderator

Hello Alex :)

if you read my bio my mums gallbladder cancer story is in there, I am a simular situation to you, surgeons at hospital have washed their hands with my mum.  My mum wanted to fight this with chemo but I don't see her having the chance now, shes had such bad luck.  I can't believe the surgeons and doctors would treat someone my mums age the way they have, and how they've treated me.  I keep watching my mum go down with infections and there is nothing I can do about it other than get her to the hospital, after fighting for an ambulance.   I am so sick with worry, doctor has put me on antidepressant tablets.

Hi. I hope you are keeping well. my mum was in a similar situation. I can only hope that you have been able to cope with everything since your post.

Take care x

My mum passed away peacefully on the 2nd of February 2022 thank you for everyone's kind words, I'm managing to get by day to day but she never leaves my mind x