I have time to write this as hubby is asleep on his sheepskin that I bought him during his rip van winkle period. The chemo has kicked in and a sore mouth, split lips and terrible indigestion are all fighting to be the worst of the bunch. I tell him that if he had lost weight I could chuck him over my shoulder and burp him, but we know my force feeding is stopping that! Our daughter says that her Dad is probably one of few to have gained weight and we laugh saying I should write a book on how to do this whilst having chemo. How have you done it she asks and I tell her with threats, which have always worked well in our 47 years of marriage! ! James Cook hospital tomorrow morning for our radiotherapy talk, I'll let you know how it goes.