Hi I'm new on here, and was just looking for I dont even know. To see what others have done to cope. My husband is 2 years into oral cancer spread to distal lung as of last week. We have had 3 operations, and crazy enough 2 primary cancers. In between the oral cancer popping up they found renal cell in his kidney and we lost that in March. 2 occurrences where we had surgery  lympnode  lympnode and small tumor under chin, and small tongue lesion... all in 3 surgeries removing cAncer. Now we have biopsy results that the lung nodule and lymph node is indeed cancer. They are throwing around radiation and immunetharpy...chemo, and I insisted thoracic surgery on to see about removal of those CV spots if possible. The doctor was honest in saying no cure at this point. He is still strong. How long or what is the timeline for this. What do I expect. He is only 46 and we have 2  small children. Any advice orvstory I would love to hear. I'm scared and yet I have to be strong...