For the record, my mum is amazing. She had 10 years all clear and then 5 years ago she was rediagnosed with terminal and they gave her about 5 years, she's done well and she's so brave and strong and I love her so much. She can't take chemo anymore because her body is too weak. She's on painkillers and anti sickness she's lost so much weight she genuinely looks like a skeleton. I'm 23 (24 in April) and my little sister is 18 just turned on the 11th of March. My mums in a hospice and I really don't know what to do. Obviously I don't want my mum to die because I want her here forever. I just feel like I've been preparing myself for the inevitable for years and it hurts feeling so worried and stressed all the time and I know I shouldn't be feeling this way because it's selfish. My mum is 47 and she's the most amazing person ever. We're all here but I can't stand to watch her deteriorate slowly and die it breaks my heart
(edit) but I kind of want her to just succumb to her illness. There's nothing left of her to fight it off. She can't anymore, it really hurts and it's awful but I just want her to be peaceful and not struggle