My amazing Mum passed away 9 days ago from metastatic ovarian cancer and I am dealing with so, so much!
She was a single parent and named me executor of her will, I'm only 24 and have 2 younger sisters who are a huge help and I think we are a really good team, but no one ever told me it would be so difficult to organise everything.
Our family have been brilliant too but the amount of paperwork to go through when some dies is shocking, and I am devastated as our funeral director preyed on our vulnerability and ending up getting thousands of pounds out of us for doing literally the bare minimum. The anger is eating away at me and on top of it I am exhausted trying to keep on top of things. Organisation has never been my strong point and I stupidly arranged for an estate agent to come round to value the house tomorrow, so we have had to do an entire clean and tidy of the house and all the memories and objects I have come across have cut fresh wounds. Mum was so stoic throughout the whole thing and never let on just how much she was struggling, it breaks my heart to think about how much she suffered, mentally and physically.
I miss my Mum so much that I messaged her on Facebook earlier and I keep expecting her to reply. She understood me more than anyone else in the entire world, and although I am so grateful to my family and I can tell them anything, no one will ever know the bond that we shared. She loved me so much and I always felt it. I'm just really sad today.