On my! I am really shocked and saddened to read this. To think that possibly this could have been sorted in October......what's your treatment plan? Xxxx

Thanks for your reply.

I have an appointment  with  the oncologist  on Monday. But they already told me i need to start with chemotherapy  and maybe hormone  treatment  then surgery!

I am still in shock  and today i told my 8 years old daughter and she cried

So much to take in....you must be very angry.....

the sooner your on the treatment plan the better....do you have a good support network at home? Your poor daughter....so hard for her too....xxxxx

I am so sorry to hear this. I can’t imagine what you’re going through and you’ll be in my prayers tonight. Well done on telling your daughter - you’re being so brave.

I am horrified that they missed your cancer and I wondered if you could tell us what happened? I found a lump that seems to be growing and had an ultrasound where they said they saw nothing so couldn’t do a biopsy and didn’t need to and I’m trying to decide whether to push for more tests.

Take care and let us all know how it goes xx

Hi Marvisin,

Welcome to our community, although I am saddened by the reason you've come to join us. You must feel quite angry that you were told that you were clear in October, only to be informed that you now have grade 3 breast cancer. I am so glad that you had the sense to return to the clinic again when you felt that things still weren't right.

Good on you for telling your daughter so early on. Children can be so matter of fact about this, especially if you can manage to stay positive about what lies ahead - not always easy, I know.

I shall be thinking of you tomorrow and, hope that all goes well with the oncologist.

Please let us know how you get on. We are always here for you.

Kind regards,

Jolamine xx

I am still a bit confused. And feeling  a lost. 

My husband and my daughter cried and i didnt. Just hard to believe  it xxxx

I think you should push for more tests.

When i found my lump they said nothing to worry about. I went back to the docs cause it started  growing xx

Thank you xx

Hi Marvisin,

Don't forget that we are always here for you.

Kind regards,

Jolamine xx

Thank you xx

Updates 

Next Thursday  i will have a Picc inserted  and starting  Chemotherapy  on Friday!

Gosh I've  been rushing  around  with appointment  and still can't  believe  this is happening!