I'm so sorry to read about the loss of your mother-in-law, Mc24.
You're not alone - many people here have experienced bereavement recently, so you're absolutely in the right place to talk.
Hopefully, someone will be along soon to chat but, in the meantime, I just wanted to let you know about Cruse - a bereavement care charity. They have some really helpful information about how to support someone who's grieving.
I do hope you're able to get the support that you, your partner and father-in-law need. We're here if and when you need us.
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