Really Bad News !

Had really bad news today.  I have extensive spread in nodes and the cancer has also metastasized to my brain. Gosh this is scary - hubby and I are numb! X

  • Max, I havent been on here for ages and I,m so sad this is the first thing I have seen.

    my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your familyxGod blessyou.so very sorry.

  • So sorry to hear this. What line of treatment are they taking? Xxx
  • Dearest Max, so saddened to read your latest post. We'd all been praying for better news. I'll email you sweetheart. Much love Jo xx
  • Oh Max,

    I was so sorry to read this. Life can be so unfair at times. During the time I have been chatting to you, you have befriended and supported so many people and it upsets me that lovely people like yourself are made to suffer from the ravages of this evil disease. My own mathers breast cancer spread to her brain and I know how scary this was for her.

    I will be thinking of you and your family. Sending best wishes and kind thoughts your way, Brian.

  • Hi Max, I am sending the biggest virtual hug to you and you family. Think "Mr Man" with the long wiggly arms that will go all the way round you all. If you don't get dozens of posts today it is only because all those people you have inspired and kept going will be lost for the right words to say. There is often debate about whether it is "better" to make one's exit with something like C or the quick sudden shock of an accident or massive stroke or heart attack. Having experienced both losses - as the surviving partner the memories you can make as a couple / family even when going through the tough times are absolutely priceless. To say the least you will be passing to your family  the most amazing demonstration of courage, strength and love that a Mum / Wife can achieve . In short - an inspiration of how to squeeze the most out of this tough old job called life. Maybe like a diamond - not huge quantity but amazing quality. luv sueps...x

  • Dear Max, what can I say. What I want to say is unprintable. You are so wonderfully supportive to all you come into contact with. So loving and kind and kinda kooky. My thoughts are with you. Hugs and monumentous lots of love, Kathy xxx
  • Dear Max Im so very sorry to hear your latest news ,you have been through so much already you dont deserve this added worry  ..You have been such a great support to so many on the forum so we must all support you now through you latest battle and kick cancers Butt so hard ..Big hug and kind thoughts Max ..x Sueanne

  • Max, I just wanted to say that all of us moderators are thinking of you and that we are so sorry to hear this news. 

    We are all here for you at any time: nurses, mods, all your forum friends.

    Sending you a virtual hug,

    Lucie

  • Oh Max, what can I say? The tears are streaming down my face. I wish I could be close to you to give you a major hug. Just know that you are in my heart and my prayers. Take the best care of yourself and you know that all of us here on the forum are keeping you in our thoughts. I guess you have heard the words that we continue to dread hearing some day, but know some of us likely will.  

    Sending big hugs!

    Lorraine

  • Hi max So sorry and saddened by your news, it's just so unfair. You are such a kind and compassionate person and you and your family do not deserve this!! I wish you peace and strength max. Look after yourself xxx