My dad was diagnosed with prostate cancer he also has a spinal cord compression and is bedridden on top of this he has a small nodule of lung cancer .he was diagnosed in May 2019 a doctor said he has maybe 12 months but he seems in good health apart from bedridden .it's just very hard to see him like this he has carers 3 times a day they have to clean him after he hasopened his bowels he's 87 and his wife is same age I recently moved back home after a messy divorce I reached breaking point on Christmas he was so Ill vomiting and diarrhea I had a damn good cry on my own fortunately he has picked up but I just don't know what to expect will he suddenly detoiriate or be in pain I find not knowing so hard .if any has any experience of this condition I would love to have some info of what to expect