I'm just 6 weeks post masectomy and just wanted to share my journey ... I'm 63 years young and after being diagnosed grade 3 I thought my time was up and I climbed on to the roller coaster of coming to terms with all the emotions that come with it ... When I was feeling overwhelmed by the speed it was going I watched a program of children's cancer ward and I was so surprised how brave they were and they were still smiling .. it made me realize if they could do it , I would take a leaf out of their book and not let cancer change who I was or let it take away my sense of humour... So I started looking at it as a journey not a battle and I would take every thing it through at me ..
Although I had a few setbacks in hospital , the ward I was on was amazing .. we found something to laugh at every day .. like when I put my first prossthsis in my bra and didn't know it had slipped a little and I asked my new friend in the next bed and her husband what they thought .. he said I'd have to change my name to one hung low it made me smile all day ..I know I am lucky as I am a mum Nan and two great grand kids so I'm great full for the life I've had ...
I've just been given the news it was 'low grade tumor' and I don't need cemo and I am still in shock (nice shock) it all seems like a dream in a way .. so I've wrote this as being a grade 3 lump can still have a good outcome ...
If I'd been lot younger it would be a different story ... So my heart goes out to everyone who is finding it overwhelming .. it also helped me taking one day at a time .. so a big hug to all those who are on their own journey ... My thoughts are with you all xx