Hi all,

Was really hoping for some help/advice here please.

I'm not the one suffering with cancer my husband of only 10 months is. We found out yesterday that he has a fast and aggressive tumour in his pinel region of his brain and is going to need chemo and radiotherapy. 

I have only just been through this exact journey with my dad, he had cancer of the lungs and pituitary gland. He died in july last year and I'm still in massive grief for him! 

Reason I need help, my husbands family have been awful towards me, name calling blaming me etc and hes just letting them do it, I feel very unloved, disrespected because I am so trying my best, been to every appointment, do his meds feed him, everything a wife should do yes, I am 25 hes 30, he now speaks to me like I'm the bad guy and I am struggling to cope with it because hes changed already! I have thought about sending him to his mums because hes said that's what hed want to do if he had to have another op... which blew my mind anyway! 

Please please can someone make sense of this mess and help me see a way through this? 

I have old fashioned morals and sickness in health we said, but I'm not here to be unhappy and treated this way! My family around me are heartbroken for me and are all edging me on to leave him! How awful would that be? He doesn't need that as well as everything else..... 

Thank you xx