My partner of 25 years has recently been diagnosed with stage 4 bladder cancer and we have been told it is incurable. 10 weeks ago he was playing golf and we were having caravan holidays, now it seems like we are in a nightmare.
He is so poorly, he lost 3 stone in 8 weeks and looks emaciated. He is very fatigued so sleeps a lot. When he is awake he can be confused or agitated. The worse thing is the bladder tumour has grown out of the bladder and into his rectum giving him bowel incontinence. It is breaking my heart seeing him so weak, ill and vulnerable.
We were told he had 6 to 12 months to live, but i am so scared he will not live that long, he seems to be deteriorating every day.