Hi,
My mum has recently undergone tests in relation to being diagnosed with stage 2 possibly stage 3 paranasal sinus cancer. The doctors are adamant it is a malignant tumour in the roof of her mouth after it’s eaten away her nasal bone and now there’s a hole in her hard palate. I was wondering if anyone has any advice or knowledge on how to deal with this.
Me and my mum have been so close since I was little we’ve always had such a special bond, she has three kids, myself and my two older brothers but she always said she wanted a girl and when I was born that unbreakable bond was formed. I almost resent the fact she’s been such a fantastic mum and best friend to be because if she had just been a bad mum to me this would be easier to deal with. My world has been thrown upside down. I feel guilty saying it because all she wants is good health but I can’t help falling asleep at night, every night wishing that I will wake up and have this illness instead of her and there’s not a morning where I don’t wake up wishing it had all been a sick dream. I find myself crying all the time and it’s so bad I can’t even talk to my mum as I know I will cry my eyes out and she will be scared. She keeps saying she is not afraid of dying she just is scared of leaving me behind. I just don’t know what to do anymore.
Thank you in advance to whoever reads this post sorry for taking up so much of your time.