Pallative care

Hi

My dad 86 was diagnosed almost 4 months ago with Adenocarcinoma Stage 4 lung cancer, a large tumour in one lung with a lymph node and small spread to his kidney, he had pallative radiotherapy which seems to have eased alot of pain. He isn’t eating very much at all but having ensure drinks. My dad has lost weight and getting weaker, he tecently had an oncologist phone call appointment discussing the radiotherapy and asking how he is, he asked if he would want to try some chemo but dad wasn’t very keen and declined which the doctor agreed with as he is weak. He asked if a pallative nurse was seeing him which she is and said she would look after his care, he basically has been discharged from the hospital as feel theres nothing more they can offer is this normal procedure as doesn’t sit right with me.

  • You can ask for a second opinion.

    You can ask for trials available. You can ask the doctor why he has been dischargerd. You can also ask the pallative nurse. 

    If you feel your dad wants more treatment and you have discussed it with him then start asking questions asap

     

    My mum 10 years ago had lung cancer in one of her lungs. She was told nothing they could do basically go home enjoy your short life.

    My sister friends mum had same thing got a second opinion went to another hospital had bottom of lung removed some chemo and is on tablets for rest of her life. She still lives till this day. 

    Just saying always have hope until there is none. And dont just accept the doctors words get all the info and listen to what your gut tells you. 

    you get answers

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