Pain under arm after breast cancer surgery

Due to post surgery discomfort and high sensitivity underarm tricep and rear of shoulder my partner is finding it very difficult to wear a bra. We have purchased sports bras as recommended but still findind it very uncomfortable so spending most of the time with no breast support. Any advise please?

  • Hi there jc .... I was told by my oncology nurse that it is very tender under armpit where lymph node is taken ... they should have given her exercises to help ... my armpit was tender for quite a while ... l was told not to lift heavy things with that arm .. and to never have blood pressure taken on that arm either ..

    I'm 10 months post mastectomy now and it still doesn't like me over doing things with that arm ... and my auntie who 3 months post mastectomy said the same ... so maybe have chat with your oncology team (nurse) and see what they think ... maybe it never goes quite so strong as before ... always better to check ...  Chrissie x

  • Mine still isn’t as strong as it was despite still doing the exercises I was given. I was advised by one if the bcn’s that there is a main nerve that has to moved out of the way to get at the lymph nodes and this can get quite bruised during this process. I’m hoping it will improve, but I guess it will be a slower process than that after surgery and recovery from that.  

  • Thank you 

    Just hope it settles for my partner soon 

  • Maybe she should mention it to her breast care nurse if she sets herself a target date and there is no measurable improvement?

  • Hi there I am one year post treatment and still can't wear a bra without some pain. It's very important to wear a supportive bra as it helps with recovery and fluid retention is what I was told.

    I have bought so many bras to find the right one that I could open a shop! There's information at breast cancer haven - perhaps contact them or register with your nearest one? The one in London has a bra lady cone once a month to advise and think I've finally found a more comfy one.

    The arm and pain is just a part of life now. No lifting with it but I'm right handed so it's hard to always remember. It will get better and the exercises are very important - I still do them. I hope it improves.

  • Thank you any helpfull information I can get will help my partner just hope it does not affect her job when she returns to work she.s a dog handler so has a big gsd dog on the end of her arm on 12 hour shifts

  • Hi, I had surgery 2015, I was told to exercise for 2 years, for strength and better movement. It works as I have around 90% movement back, and my strength in both arms is about equal now. I'm still exercise trying for 100% use back, I've all so had a frozen should before op and afterwards, exercise works.

  • Hi there ... l would be really worried for your wife taking on walking a German shepherd dog ...  and 12 hour shifts sounds exorsting. . We do get more tired after cancer ops / treatments ... and it takes time to build up energy levels ... so don't be surprised if she's cream crackered after work ..

    Just a thought ... Chrissie x

  • Thank you Thats what is worrying its her job being a dog handler and when her boy is dealing with someone or something he.s a very strong powerful thing to have on the end of arm Just have to add it to the fingers crossed list
  • If I am totally honest I had thought that a year after treatment I'd be able to get my life back to how it was before cancer. My brain is totally ready but my body isn't. I have faced the realisation that to expect a lot - which before you would've thought wasn't anything much - isn't do-able. I finished a year ago and am still struggling and have had to make adjustments to how much and what i can do. Perhaps I'm just one of the unlucky ones but with returning to work 3 weeks ago (an office job) I've struggled terribly with fatigue and 2 chest infections. I eat right and do absolutely everything I've been advised but you just have to take it one day at a time. Every one reacts differently to every stage of this so no point being too positive and be a realist. I am talking from experience - my body and brain do not cooperate at all. Realise the limitations and it'll be easier. Fingers crossed is a big list and patience to get to items on that list and realism to face never being able to get to do those things again. Small goals are big achievements. I do hope your wife makes a good and speedy recovery but one day at a time.