I'm forgetting her... where are all my memories of her?
The only video and sound of her voice I have was from years ago, and even then she was acting and putting on a silly voice.
Grief is so weird. I can think about her and feel fine. Other times I just feel completely numb and hollow, and without feeling at all. And then sometimes it'll hit me out of the blue completely and I'll just start crying. It's so confusing. And I don't understand it when I just feel nothing at all?
So much has changed in my life this year, and I feel like I've changed so much as a person. I'm so distant from who I was when she knew me, and I'll never get to know her as someone who wasn't 18. I won't ever know her as a 20 year old. I won't ever know her as a 40 year old. And she'll only ever have known me up until an 18 year old. Sometimes I think if she were here that everything would be okay.
I just wish I could remember her better. I feel so distant from her.