Oesophageal Cancer and spreading

My father in law was diagnosed with oesophageal cancer at the start of 2017. He had chemotherapy. It didn’t stop the cancer growing and post-chemo scans showed that it had spread into the adrenal gland. Since then, a visible lump has appeared on his neck and progressively more lumps appearing on his back and under arm.

He was being tube fed, and then once it was decided that surgery wasn’t an option (because of the spread) he got a stint put in. This was to allow him to eat ‘normally’ again. 

He is has terrible nausea and lots of burping fowl gas. Eating is a big struggle and getting fluid in isn’t much better.

We don’t know how long we can expect to have him.

My mother in law has been wonderous in providing him with whatever food he takes a notion for, in the hope of getting some calories in. He so so weak now.

Does anybody have any experience of the late stage of this type of cancer? I’d been keen to hear any tips you have for making life more comfortable for him and my mother in law.

Thanks in advance xx

  • Horry to hear about your Dad, my brother is getting stent in today we only found out last week eek but it too advancadvan
  • Hi Anna,

    I'm sorry to read that your father in law didn't have the outcome he wanted from the chemo and that the cancer has spread even further.

    I;m sure he will have had all the usual advice about eating little and often, it is hard to know what else to say except to reverse whatever you would do when trying to lose weight. Using full fat milk and adding cream or cheese to food will increase the calories he consumes might help. 

    Giving your Mum in Law some time out will help her cope with things. Sit with him while she goes off to do something not cancer-related. This is awkward but has anyone discussed with him whether he would want to be resuscitated when he nears his end of life? This may seem a heartless thing to ask, but there's nothing worse than uncertainty with close relatives disagreeing over whether resuscitation should be attempted or whether their loved one should be left to slip away peacefully. Easier to ask about this now while he is able to make his views known.

    Best wishes
    Dave