Hello to all.
I have been looking in for several weeks and have replied to a couple of posts,but this is my first post.
I had two biopsies in a very awkward area of the tongue. I got the results yesterday and it is cancer.
The consultant examined the tumour and said he thinks tonsil is also involved,he also examined an area on hard palate and has arranged for a further biopsy on this area along with the usual CT scans etc.
It has only began to sink in to my befuddled brain today just how extensive this may turn out to be. I have lost my husband to cancer so am facing this journey alone. Needless to say I am shell shocked,numb,cant think straight.
To make matters worse I have only recently moved to a totally unsuitable home in an area I know no-one. Due to another incurable health condition I am having to give up driving and this is making me very isolated.
I have a grown up family that I dont see very often but, I am very independant and would never want to be a burden on them. I am hoping someone comes along that can share their similar experiences as I have read some very thoughtful and kind respones on here.