Hi my name is Charlotte (38), and my husband, Charlie (39) has just been diagnosed with a rectal tumour. We have two gorgeous boys 3yrs old and 1 yr old. My husband had been experiencing loose bowel movements and more frequent need to go for about 6 weeks, went to GP and he ordered a colonoscopy. That was two days ago, and we have been told there are lots of polyps and a few cm mass/tumour, most likely to be cancer. It is about 8 cm up. Biopsy taken, MRI on friday, and another colonoscopy next week. I am frightened to death!!! We both can not believe it. He goes to the gym 5x a week, he eats really healthy foods, he drinks (on weekends) but does not smoke. How has this happened?? I`m really struggling with all this. I have cried pretty much every day since the diagnosis. All i can think is the worst. Does the fact he only had symptoms for about 6 weeks mean its low scale? how have other partners managed to stay strong, i`m falling apart