My Nan is dying...

My Nan has lung cancer caused by Asbestos. My ucle also died of it. She is 84, we lost our grandad 3 years ago and she has been ill ever since. She doesn't have long left but she hasn't been given a timeline as my Mum hasn't asked the nurse yet. Struggling between being very strong and matter of fact and then the realisation that the woman who bought me up is leaving us. I love her so much. I can't bear seeing her waste away and in such a horrible way. Does anyone know how long she might have? I want to know so I know how to look ahead. I get a feeling it won't be long at all.. She isn't having any treatment.

  • Welcome to the forum Jem although I'm sorry to hear why you are posting.

    Only your nan's medical team will be able to tell you how long your nan may have left but I have included some general information we have about dying with cancer which will let you know what may happen as the time gets near. This section of our website can be quite a difficult read so do only go through it if you think you are ready to do so. 

    If you would like to speak to someone about this as well do give our cancer nurses a call next week. Their freephone number is 0808 800 4040 and are available Monday - Friday between 9a.m 5p.m.

    I hope this helps Jem and our thoughts are with you at this difficult time

    Kind regards, 

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator