Hi there,
I just need some advice really. My mum broke her hip in December and her bones were sent off for analysis, the results came back as stage 4 bone mastasis with unknown primary. She accepted palliative chemotherapy but is on the 2nd dose and is really struggling with the side effects. She is constantly being sick and we just can’t get rid of the constipation no matter what the doctor prescribes. I really am finding it hard watching her suffer and I really don’t know if it’s worth it and how long it will prolong her life. She’s has been given 18 months but I don’t know if that’s with the chemo or without. She told me yesterday that after this course of chemo, even if it’s shrunk the Tumor or not, she is going to refuse any more treatment. Will this have an impact on her survival time? It’s so hard to sit back and watch my mum in so much pain, i dont want to lose her sooner than expected but also understand why she wants to refuse treatment cos she knows it’s terminal and it’s making her so poorly. You’re advice would be really appreciated cos I really don’t know what to expect on do to help her, thanks in advance xxx