my mum died peacefully in her sleep from Alzheimer’s on the 7th July. The morning of her funeral I was called by the care home at 2:30am to say my dad had passed a lot of blood clots. After spending the night at A&E we found out after his CT scan that he has bladder cancer that’s spread to his pelvis bones and left kidney. I feel like I’m in a dream. I’m so unwell with the stress from it all I don’t know where to turn. My mum then this hideous news about my dad. I can’t bear it.