my grandma was diagnosed with bowel cancer in December and we found out yesterday that she is too high risk for surgery, so basiacally...we now have to wait for nature to take its course.
I see my grandma everyday and have done for around 4/5 years now so naturally, I’m absolutely heartbroken. I spent both yesterday and today crying but tonight me and my mam clashed over the situation. She told me that I need to pull myself together because I’m not the only one that this is affecting. She then went on to state that my grandma has no idea what she’s about to face (being in pain etc.) and that she probably won’t be here at Christmas. The best part is, after those comments, she told me to stop dwelling on things!
I just don’t know what to do!