I have an ex girlfriend that I am still a good friend too. She got over cervical cancer at 34 by having a full hysterectomy and chemotherapy, 5 years on and she has had a bad cough for a while. An x-Ray has shown a shadow on the lung. She now has to go for a scan on the 10th August. She is so brave and caring, her two young children don't know anything. I fear the worse. And I'm scared. I'm a 43 year old strong male, but since finding out three days ago, I've done nothing but cry and be fearful of the worst. She is currently the n holiday in France and will bbe back on the 9th. I'm a wreck and I don't know what to do. Please help.

Gary