My darling husband just been diagnosed

My darling husband just been diagnosed with lung cancer. A bolt out of the blue. I’m broken hearted. Reaching out to this forum xxx

  • Hello Jaqui

    I am so sorry to hear about your husband. I'm in the same position as you. My husband had his diagnosis of Lung cancer confirmed on 23rd December. Its shattering news. We had planned a quiet christmas as 2 of our 3  Children were away but in the end they all came home and we did have a nice christmas and new year. My husband is very positive about it all. He had his meeting with the oncologist on 3rd January and has decided to have only Radiotherapy which gives him a 15% chance. His prognosis without any treatment is 12 months. I have very teary times when I'm on my own and think the worst at times like how will I manage if I lose him but most of the time I tell myself he will get better - it's the only way I get through the days. I hope your husband has successful treatment. I'm here for you if you need to chat any time. It helps me to know someone else will understand what this feels like.  Take care, Kaz x

  • Hi Jaqui and KMV, if you want info and help have a look at the STAY STRONG string it'll probably give you some ideas, as well as it's a good story and very interesting reading. Good luck and best wishes.....

    Billy 

  • Thank you so much... this is all brutally new to me and I really appreciate you reaching out to me - message me too, for any support. Sending positive vibes to you and yours. Hoping, praying.

    xx

  • Thank you so much for your well wishes, Billy and for reaching out to me. I never realised how vital and how much these forums help xx

  • Thanks Billy I will take a look x

  • Hello Jacqui, It's a scary time, but it's very early days for you. Lung cancer has a bad reputation but I know, although not a medic, that if caught early the chances of cure are very high. Best wishes, Harry.

     

  • Hello Jaqui

    I was just paying the forum a visit and was wondering how you and your husband are doing? My husband has 4 more sessions of RT left having had 16 already

    Hope all is well

    Kaz x