I made an account on here about a year ago and it has taken me this long to say something on here, and if I’m honest I’m not sure what to say.
My dad was diagnosed with bladder cancer on the 9th of November 2016, and then diagnosed with lung cancer on the 9th of June 2017. The hospital is unable to work on his bladder cancer because if they put him to sleep to look at anything they don't think he will wake back up until his lungs are sorted.
He has gone through chemotherapy which made his kidneys deteriorate and he had to go onto a saline drip. The next thing that has been tried is radiation therapy, he has gone through one lot of that and the hospital have now said he has 18 months to 2 years left to live and that they cannot guarantee any longer. We found this out over a month ago, but it has only hit me tonight.
I am 16 years old, a single child, and in my first year of college. Just before Christmas my mum walked out on me and my Dad and has been having an affair. I no longer speak to her because of what she has done.
Honestly, I am struggling with my Dad's situation, I love him so much, he is my rock, my best friend, my everything. But we keep having arguments and we keep shouting at each other, this is scaring me so much because I’m scared I will wake up one morning after an argument and he won't.
If anyone could tell me what to expect, or any advice I would appreciate it so much, I am scared, and I’m struggling to cope with the mixture of problems with my Dad, mum, college, and friends all together.
Thank you so much, Jade x