Hello, I just need to talk to somebody or to just get my feelings out as at the moment I am going through the most difficult time,
My dad was diagnosed with stage 4 bowel cancer in november 2014 which had spread to the liver. Everytime he has had chemo it has made him very ill and his deteriation has been so rapid. He is currently in hospital battling a stomach and urine infection which is making him confused and very aggressive. He is the kindest person so to hear him shouting at nurses and hallucinating is very distressing. He is now so weak that he cannot move on his own, he is incontinent and when he's not asleep he just stares into space and doesn't want to talk or register that anybody is in the room. I know that we are most probably facing him passing away quite soon and I feel disloyal for thinking that this could only be a relief. Does that sound a horrible thing to say? I can't stand to see him suffering in this way. He is my amazing dad and i find it hard to to recognise this frail man who was once so fit and healthy. Its so desperately sad and heartbreaking. Thanks for listrning, Kate