Hi there Kate ... I know this is a really heartbreaking time for you... i was in the same position as you years ago .. my wonderful dad went slowly with pneumonacosis on his lung ... he was so kind and gentle ..  there’s no easy way through ... sounds like he’s worried about you and your mum .. and listening to him and his worries will help him .. just hold his hand ... I know how lost you must feel coz I had my young family at the time... juggling with family, work, and having poorly parents ... just shows how strong you are, even if you don’t think it , you are ..

what do you need to arrange .. coz there’s help lines you can phone on here or McMillan too .. you can get practical advice and help... your not on your own ... reach out to them and they’ll help you get through ... they helped me ... sending you a big hug .. Chrisie x .

My Dad was recently diagnosed with Lung Cancer. teh macmillan nurses said they would be in touch to have a Health day check with him when they go over his whole health, including financial etc. I am sure they can give youhelp and advice about how to support him. There is also a macmillan nurse who deals with patients with dementia who would eb able to offer advcie.

I have not used them yet myself-but the help is there and its worth trying them? A big hug for you and your family xx