Earlier this week, a friend of my mother's had told her (and possibly my dad) about a mobile phone app that could be used to record his consultations. This, I think, is an excellent idea. My dad is a very private person and unless the cancer team request it, I know that he wouldn't want my mother sitting in on his consultations. Also, she's hard of hearing (makes for a lot of 'interesting' conversations). He is meeting with the cancer team for the first time on Monday.
Having read some of the advice posted on here, I had sent my mother a text message advising her that if my dad has any questions he wishes to ask, it would be a good idea for him to note them down and take along to the meeting. Received a reply informing me that she had already put this to him, and they had ended up having a blazing row about it. She thinks he's under the impression that she's interfering.